As we grow older and begin applying to graduate programs and jobs, we begin to realize that getting what you want is never a guarantee. Though it may sound bleak, learning to deal with rejection is a major part of becoming an adult, and moreover, a career-minded individual.
This week, we’ll be shedding some light on these seemingly depressing scenarios, like not getting the job you wanted or being denied from the law school of your dreams. No matter the circumstance, it’s sometimes necessary to deal with rejection before you catch a break in the career world. Perseverance is a must for all young professionals, and we know that with some effort and a positive attitude, everyone can reach their ambitions.
We’d love to hear what you think about this touchy subject. Can you think of a time you’ve been rejected by a college, employer, or other institution? How did you cope?
Learning how to handle failure is a large part of life. For every oportunity lost another is right around the corner.
During my freshman year I was not a good college defensive end. I was told on a number of ocassions by both players and coaches that I would never have an opportunity to play football during my college career. I took this as a challege to better myself and continue training to earn a position. By my Junior season I split time at my position with the starter and proved many people wrong with their assumption. Had I not been told where my standing was in the team I do not know If I would have ever played.
Dealing with failure is never fun, but it’s comforting, at least to me, knowing that I gave it my best shot and made an effort as opposed to not trying at all. I didn’t get into the college I wanted, but I’m making the most of my time at UVa, and I love it and don’t regret it one bit. I think the key to dealing with failure is a positive attitude – if you constantly focus on the negative things, you won’t be able to move past those failures.
I started a small home based business about a year ago. It didn’t last very long. Nonetheless that doesn’t mean I’m down and out. I still plan to make a comeback with another business in the future because failure won’t stop me.
Failure is not always a bad thing. I would way rather try something and fail instead of constantly wondering, ‘what if?’ Just recently, I was hired for an internship and I was super excited about it. Soon after, I didn’t feel as if I was doing a proficient job and I realized that this position was not very well suited for me at all. I am so glad I tried it though, and now I know that that type of career is just not for me.